... evie ....
A Little Space In My Perfect Little Own World
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February 19, 2017
Idea Prompts
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This morning,
I had black coffee, not too strong, just enough for a jolt to my brain. A sip of near half a cup will work that jolt.
Coffee
drinkers would understand – it’s imperative that we have to have it first thing
in the morning. In order for aimless thoughts to start making sense, or the heavy legs to start trudging, a cuppa is needed. (Sorry, tea lovers!) J
Then, with
another half of a cup of black coffee more to go, I relaxed and let my mind
wander a fair bit. I can’t speak for other writers, but allowing my mind to
roam freely calms me and greatly helps in my creative writings. Like a comfort
blanket to a giddy heart. I do lots of introspection and retrospection in-between
but not holding on to a specific thought or matter. I let clarity sets itself.
I don’t force it.
More often
than not, an answer will appear or an idea will present itself. I get most of
the ideas, especially the titles for poems this way. Though most of the times,
I hesitate much on whether I should make it public once I finished composing
those poems or some flash-fictions. Some have not seen the light of day
yet, and perhaps never will. It’s ok. I write for myself, not for others. I
compose them to soothe/heal, to be contented, and to be whole. Again, like a
comfort blanket, but this time it’s to the soul.
And when the coffee has finished. What do I do next? ..... Simple....
The usual...
---> Contemplate on having a second cuppa. J
And when the coffee has finished. What do I do next? ..... Simple....
The usual...
---> Contemplate on having a second cuppa. J
December 15, 2016
December Love
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DECEMBER-
to me, in my virtual calendar - is the month of LOVE.
We get to
celebrate Christmas with family and loved ones over a big feast (it’s not about
turkeys and presents only ……….. hopefully? J ).
We also get
to celebrate New Year’s Eve countdown with lovely meaningful friends or
normally with our special someone (think kissy-kissy smoochy-smoochy at the
strike of 12 in clubs ?!! J ).
We then
envelope ourselves with much love and determination, when we try to better
ourselves for the brand new year with our never-ending new year resolutions (as
if we had already fulfilled the ones we pledged the year before … lol J).
Whatever
the reason(s), can’t deny the feel good LOVE feeling evidently in December’s
air.
Hearts flutter
excitingly, merrily intoxicated just by thinking and anticipating all the joy
and fun we are to going have from all the above mentioned celebrations.
Meanwhile,
I absolutely am looking forward to year 2017! ❤
November 20, 2016
Sunshine and Happiness
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After
staring down for the longest time at my blank writing pad, and then up at the
blank computer screen in front of me, I was discouraged. My brain simply would not
churn out anything. It was already mid-morning.
Then, ... out
of the blue … an idea came ...
I enticed myself - 'Eve, let’s play hooky today!’
Then ...
Just at about the same time, haloed Angel
swiftly appeared and reprimanded me, 'Oh dear! But you haven’t even begun writing
a single word yet! How do you expect to motivate yourself for this competition
if you always succumbed to this wayward impulse of yours ?!’
Then I got peeved …
‘Oh bother,
Angelica! It’s only for today! Besides, the sun is shining so bright and happy
right now. I can’t possibly be writing gloomy stuff when my heart is suddenly lifted
and light, fluttering ready to fly ?!’
Then …
Again, at about
the same time, horned Devil confidently appeared to support, 'That is right
dear! All work and no play makes Eve a dull/dumb/damned girl !! .. Now, there’s
ice-cream in the freezer – go eat some. The sofa looks invitingly good too – go
have a rest. Nobody’s watching the TV right now – go surf
some Astro channels to watch, the remote is all yours …. Heh! Heh! Heh!’
Then, I …
‘You are
absolutely right, Devilica! Today you are my friend! Today is a good day to
enjoy myself. Today’s sunshine is absolutely making me so happy! Today spells
P.L.A.Y. !!’
Then, but …
Angelica to
Devilica – ‘You are a bad influence! You are so bad you have these terrible
head horns that make you look so ugly! No wonder you are made to be avoided!’
Devilica to
Angelica – ‘Oh hush! And you are such a dull pudge! That’s why nobody ever wants
to take your advice and listen to you. You are so boring that your halo is
always of the same boring colour! Haven’t you ever heard of Neon?’
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Then, I
decided …
‘Shut up
Angelica! …. Today I want to eat ice-cream! … After that, I want to lie down on the sofa to
relax, and while resting, I want to watch the full four-hour marathon re-runs of Anna Olsen’s baking show on
AFC … !!’
And so, on
this day – the Devil won the match.
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October 20, 2016
Morning Alarm
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I could
barely open my eyes. Its morning and a wet one too. Heavy downpour the whole
night before until near dawn. Still drizzling now.I slept
very late last night, I think past 3am. A habit I’m trying utmost not to
forge.
The good thing is, somehow or other I will ‘auto wake-up’ around 7.30-ish nearly every
morning. My phone alarm is always set at 7am but I will sleep through it –
always. Never mind whatever the music/tune I had set it as the alarm wake. It’s
kind of useless – whether it’s a tyrant tune to shock jolt my brain (probably could give me a heart attack one day), or a soft tune to
have a gentle wake. Or tunes of bird chirpings, dog barking, duck quacking,
whatever animal ‘fill in the blanks’ sound to annoy me to get up, I’ll still
sleep through all that. An apparent shame. J
I should
just set my alarm to 7.30am in sync with my auto wake-up self-praised virtue.
At least I can deceive myself that I am a disciplined person, that I could get my butt off the bed
the minute the alarm’s tune strikes. No?
But I digress. L
And I
forgot what I had intended to write here initially. Certainly not about clocks,
alarms or tunes.
I need to go
get my coffee now.
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August 19, 2016
Dealing with Fury
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This
griping angst. This feeling of wretched frustrations. I can’t fade the
resentments. I can’t dim the fury. I’m helpless. It’s debilitating, to my daily
existence. I wish to survive.
I can’t
hate. I don’t wish to have to hate them, those people. I don’t want to. But
still, their unwelcome tainted presence wrecks my psyche. My spirit is broken.
Stay far away from me! Get lost!
Stay far away from me! Get lost!
******************
I recognize
these emotions. J
So dark.
And I know some, if not many, had felt this way before. Harsh, but relatable.
And I know some, if not many, had felt this way before. Harsh, but relatable.
This phase will
pass, whether if it’s only a fleeting period of time, or taking longer than hoped.
You can cease it. But you have to want to cease it.
And when you have managed to ‘recover’, make a conscious effort to walk over to the brighter and lighter side. Then, work hard on remaining there.
And when you have managed to ‘recover’, make a conscious effort to walk over to the brighter and lighter side. Then, work hard on remaining there.
Darkness is
not forever, it is only so if you allow it to be.
May 24, 2016
Today
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24 May ...
On this particular day, I pledge that from now on, I will do my very best to …
…. be kinder to myself. No need for any self-berating, self-bashing when I did not achieve what I had set out for myself to achieve within that stipulated time frame.
…. allow myself to let go of burdens (especially of others’) and not feel guilty (or be made to feel guilty) about it.
…. pay more attention to my intuition. Be not too quick to brush aside this small nudging voice. Let it be heard.
…. focus more on my own journey of self-actualisation, steadfastly.
…. love myself more. Nourish my inner self. Cherish my being. Prioritise me.
❤❤ ❤
April 13, 2016
Melancholia Posts
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I scrolled
through this blog leisurely. Plainly I discovered, nearly all my past posts are melancholic. I thought I’ll probably close off all the posts, it would be
better. But I thought I can’t possibly dictate how my feelings should feel or when to
feel whenever I come to express my emotions here. So I think, I’ll just let the posts be.
Having
imbalance emotions at times, or even most of the times – is not a crime. Should
not be ashamed of it too. After all, human emotions are fickle. Therefore,
there’s no need to fight it.
Giving
myself space – a gap – between writing fiction and writing personal posts, is
necessary. I need to separate the fantasy and reality (writing on this journal,
that is) because hardship comes when both are intertwined. A blockage, a tug of war. Between
conscience and imagination. Hence, my pen then ceases to glide freely, the
writing pad remains empty.
But of course,
if I spent too much time extracting out the ‘pictures, scenes, people and sound’
from the imaginations in my head and try as might to turn it into words on paper, eventually my
core energy will get depleted.
And how do I recharge back? ….. Simply by
returning here - scribbling my journals.
September 4, 2015
'You Were There'
When you listen to it 101 times continuously, you know it struck a chord somewhere in you.
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December 3, 2014
There Is No Such Thing As 'Good Sorrow'
Do I go blaming myself for the fall? Or do I caress my fragile self and tell it's okay. Perhaps I did neither.
Do I go blaming and cursing the world and the heaven and the universe for my ill-befallen karma? Perhaps I did.
Well - I definitely did - aplenty times. It is much easier to place the blame on the unseen, untouchable, intangible force. Let's blame God?
Nobody wants to go through tough times. There's no such thing as wanting to experience the 'hurt or pain' first before meeting happiness. No such thing as willingly accepting 'hurt and pain' as the inevitable you have to endure, each and every time before you can rise up again. No such thing as a 'good sorrow'. No such thing as a 'sorrow with a positive vibe'.
But .... there are quite a many who feels this way. Is it unfortunate? Or is it just plain dumb? Or is it that they don't know any better? What about me?
I feel - I had felt, good karma was always eluding me. Would it be too dramatic - if I use the cliche words 'I felt like I was being cursed, or in a curse' - to describe the feelings I had at that particular period of time? It engulfed me, the supposedly curse, I mean. That much suffocation I can say.
That period of time was hell. And it was a very long period of time.
I did eventually come out from the fury darkness. And will never go back again to that phase of my life. A phase where I constantly hailed the 'sorrow' as something I have to go through before calm and joy can arrive. Unwittingly, I had made it a 'good sorrow'?
Was it dumb? Well, if it was - then fortunately, I am now no longer.
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